記得早上起床照鏡子時跟自己打聲招呼 記得每天保持 高昂的心情 記得要時常鼓勵 自己 記得遇到難過的事就不要壓抑自己 記得偶爾要讓自己 大叫發洩 記得每天出門時要 面帶笑容 記的留點時間給自己不要太匆忙 記得對有些事要學習一笑視之 記得對不確定的事物抱持疑問 記得對看不慣的事要有隱忍心態 記得對他人的窘態要有同理心 記得遇到高興的事就是要大笑 記得有時候要學會 裝可愛 記得生氣時要會學會克制怒火 記得偶爾時要放縱 自己的任性 記得最好是要有 心靈寄託 記的有時無語是 最好的回答 記得偶爾可以吃虧但不要受冤枉 記得對自己的家人也要說謝謝
xmas just over, i was so glad tat i din sms or contacted him...coz i knew no matter how he won reply me...
it's weird tat everytime when i feel alone or lonely, he will appear in my mind....the worst thg is wat appear are ths sweet memories instead of all the bad thgs he did to me...no matter how hard i try, how long it's over, i just cant control myself from missing him...
especially during special events such as xmas, new year etc, the feeling of needed him getting stronger, really wish he is just beside me, caring me and holding me in his arms like old times...
how much i miss him oledi doesnt matter as i knw there is no turning back..he will just a part of my life...just a memory which will appear sometimes...
how nice if we can be like our pc, del the unused and old files from memory anytime...
well, life goes on....i always wish him the best and clearly know tat i will love him always...
A man going abroad to work, leaves his fiancee crying. "Don't worry, I will write you everyday," he said. For years he did write her. But since he was happy with his job, he had no immediate plans of going home. One day, he received a wedding invitation. His girl friend was scheduled to be married. To whom? To the mailman bringing regularly the letters of her boy friend! Indeed, distance does make hearts flounder.
The poor boyfriend surely explained, "What went wrong? I sent her letters, chocolates, and flowers." When relationships go wrong, the list of things given and done for the person usually crops up. We say, "I have given you this and that...I have done these things for you." It seems that love is simply proven by the bestowal of gifts and favors.
But while presents are important, love demands what is basic: presence of the beloved. I have observed for instance, the orchids of my mother. When she's away for a long time, they are unhealthy and many of them wither. But when she is around, they bloom with beautiful flowers. My mother does nothing exceptional. She just spends much time talking and caressing them.
I guess persons all the more require a caring presence. Love is fundamentally a commitment to a person. We may be committed to our business, job, hobby, sports and clubs, but strictly speaking, they cannot love us back. Only a person can love us in return, and for that matter the highest commitment as human beings is spending time with those persons we love. And since people need affection and nourishment, material things can only help up to a certain degree in fostering love. But it can never replace the greatest gift of presence.
Martha was busy with her job. She believed she had to work harder because she loves her mother who is sick of cancer. She has to provide for her expensive medicines. Her brothers and sisters meanwhile stayed with their mother most of the time. They bathed her, sang for her, spoon-fed her or simply kept her company.
One day Martha was hurt. She overheard her mother telling her father, "All our children love me except Martha." "How can this be?" Martha thought. "Am I not the one killing myself in my work to have money to buy for her medicines? My brothers and sisters do not even provide their share in the expenses as much as I do."
One night, as Martha was as usual late in going home, she peeped for the first time in the room where her mother was lying. She noticed that her mother was still awake. She decided to come close at her bedside. Her mother held her hands and said, "I miss you. I don't have much time. Stay with me." And she stayed with her mother holding her hand the whole night.
The next morning Martha said to everybody, "I have taken a leave of absence. I would like to be with mother. I will bathe her and sing for her from now on." Her mother had a beautiful smile. She knew this time Martha loves her.
* As children, we need the assuring presence of our loved ones. Adult people need no less. *
Is it true that what we cant get always be the best, unforgetable, uncomparable and more precious?
Can a broke up couple become Just a Friend?Is it possible?
When we read novel, watch drama, the characters inside always so generous. If can't be couple, then still can be good friends. In our real life, is it possible to do so?
Love is selfish, how many of us can sincerely forgive those who hurt us before and yet still can sit down and talk calmly like buddy?
In real life, everything are so fragile, unpredictable and uncontrolable except for Family. No matter how bad you were to your family especially your parents, they will always be there for you whenever you need them. Most of the time, the one we hurt the most and let down the most are our parents. Isn't that funny?
Dear Friends, please think twicely for all the questionairs i shoot out above. I hope you can give me an answer perhaps or maybe i already know the answers.
However, alwyas remember, nobody in this world is 100% worth you to sacrify everything except for your parents. Do appreciate those still besides you and support you.
Life...somehow is like a food...sometimes sweet, sometimes spicy, sometimes sour...sometimes can be spicy and sour at the same time....
human is the great creation of God...given intelligent, love, passion etc...after revolution, human become more more and intelligent but at the same time less and less passion and love...hmm...is that so? who knows and who cares...
last sat went to KL for birthday celebration...i suddenly cried out in front of Green Box entrance(of cours not very loud and not all know)...i cried because i found that friendship and relationship are so so so fragile...once a very very good fren can sudd become sort of enemy or stranger...why human just cant live in peace and appreciate the love among each other...
it happened that a good fren of mine whom we always shared everythg (realyl everythg) in the past 2yrs, but out of sudden our friendship changed...it changed from love to hate...so dramatic...but yet it happened to me many times...no matter how much i appreciate there is no use if someone were to change...i sincerely hope my KL gang of frens appreciate each other and dun become stranger just cause of some misunderstanding or small matter (at least to me)...life is so short...we will never know what's gonna happen the next second, why can't we live without regret...
for me, no matter one is good or evil, if we got the chance to meet together sit down and talk, that means we got the fate...we should appreciate each other...i always remind myself, nobody is perfect in this world...no matter how bad one is, he/she also got it;s own special character which everyone can learn...before we comment on someone, we must look at ownself 1st...
same thing happen to the one you ever love...no matter how deep he/she hurt you before, i believe he/she good to you before...when you love someone, dun give up...maybe u hurt her once, but show she ur sincererity, i believe one day she will accept you back...this sentence i specailly dedicate o a fren of mine...read his blog just now...found out that he still so deeply love his ex...i dunno what happened between them but i believe if you still love someone, grab her...dun regret for the second time...don't ever cheat yourslf and another gf...
love is not belonging but to see the one you love happy....how many of us can really practice this? love is selfish and blind...if you do not forget previous one, don't ever find another one for relaplacement...cause you will never love her...you are only going to hurt her...
last of all, i wish all lovers happy ever after....please appreciate the one beside you...
Today is so hot, so decided to stay at home and watch drama even there is no air-con at home. :P
Just now read some comments by friends, i feel that they really concern about me. Thank you my friends for the advise and sharing experience. Really appreciate it.
Future, is what every each of us planning for. How is the future all depends on what effort you put to make your future planning become true. As for me, i do not really plan for future. I just enjoy every moment i have cause we really won't know what's gonna happen the next second. Life is so fragile, now we still chating, the next moment maybe something happen which will change our life toroughly.
After all i gone through, i still believe in my opinion for life. For me, life is already hard, so we must enjoy every moment. The way of enjoy depends on individual. Sometimes i like to stay at home, read some magazine, books, watch drama and chating with friends. Sometimes i rather go swimming or gym to relax myself and at the same time can keep fit. Sometimes i feel wanna go for a drink and dance (but this one hard to make it at melaka as my friends do not like clubbing). With the increasing in my age, i find that i really should make up my mind to decide what i really want in my career. After working for 4 years, i really wasted a lot of my time. Now i clearly know which field i like the most. Even though what im doing now is not the most i want, but it's a good beginning to start my new career. A friend told me there is no more job hopping if you are in late 20'. I 100% agree with him. Im going to 29 next year, so i must grab whatever chance i can get to be successful. Hopefully i won't let everyone and myself down again.
I think i really need to upgrade mkyself more to be successful soon.
Cheers to all my friends and may all your dreams come true soon.
Long time didn't log in here to write something, today at last i can online at home, so decided to write something in my beloved blog.
Been working at melaka for around 6 months, at first i thought i can suit to the normal life at melaka, but now i realise im looking for more excited, challenging life. I know clearly i just don not want end up with normal and repeating days. Maybe seldom people will agree with me, maybe they will think i'm a bad gal, but who cares as long as i'm happy.
Playful life was what i been through and somehow i miss it. Guess that playful can bring fun but i know will end up hard to find true love. What is true love? Is there really true love? Maybe there is but not for me i guess. Love is so fragile, can change easily. I rather enjoy what i can get and grap what's beside me. Am thinking maybe i should get back to be a playful gal.
Really not easy to find someone that love u and u love him back. If u get one, do not miss him/she. Some people has been searching all their life to find love, but when they found it, they did not appreciate it. Seems like human tend to be not appreciate nice things around them. When u lost it, only u realise that's the best u can find but that is too late.
Cheers to everyone and hope that you can get your love one soonest. For those already found it, please do not let it fly away.
I think im getying blur now, so don't really know what am writing. Anyway, all the best to my friends.
It's been quite some times i didn't write in my blog. Recently felt so down and moody, so decided to shout out here.
Last week went for an interview, i found out my English is so so so broken and poor. i felt so ashame of myself. Suddenly felt that am such a failure.I really need to upgrade myself in many aspect.
I'm gonna be jobless soon. Even though i been searching for jobs, went for interviews, but the result is wait. Except for waiting, nothing else i can do. Jobs hunting is one of the thing i hate the most. Not only waste time, also waste money. Anyway, that's what i need to do now and urgent. I really hope can get a suitable job as soon as possible.
Year by year, am getting older and older. This year, especially can feel am really old and don't have much time left. I suddenly so desperately wanted to find someone who i can lean on in everything, who can give me the feeling of comfortable and safety, who always be there for me when i'm down, who can handle all the problems.Where is my prince charming? Or should i ask will there be a prince charming for me?
Blur, and blur and blur.
Once upon a time a big monk and a little monk were travelling together. They came to the bank of a river and found the bridge damaged. They had to wade across the river.
There was a pretty lady who was stuck at the damaged bridge and couldn't cross the river. The big monk offered to carry the pretty lady across the river on his back. The lady accepted.
The little monk was shocked by the move of the big monk. "How can big disciple brother carry a lady when we are supposed to avoid all intimacy with females?" thought the little monk. But he kept quiet.
The big monk carried the lady across the river and the small monk followed unhappily. When they crossed the river, the big monk let the lady down and they parted ways with her.
All along the way for several miles, the little monk was very unhappy with the act of the big monk. He was making up all kinds of accusations about the big monk in his head. This got him madder and madder. But he still kept quiet. And the big monk had no inclination to explain his situation.
Finally, at a rest point many hours later, the little
monk could not stand it any further, he burst out angrily at the big monk. "How
can you claim yourself a devout monk, when you seize the first opportunity to
touch a female, especially when she is very pretty?
All your teachings to me make you a big
hypocrite."
The big monk looked surprised and said, "I had put down the pretty lady at the river bank many hours ago, how come you are still carrying her along?"
[This very old Chinese zen story reflects the thinking of many people today.We encounter many unpleasant things in our life, they irritate us and they make us angry. Sometimes, they cause us a lot of hurt, sometimes they cause us to be bitter or jealous.
But like the little monk, we are not
willing to let them go away. We keep on carrying the baggage of the "pretty
lady" with us.
We let them
keep on coming back to hurt us, make us angry, make us bitter and cause us a lot
of agony. Why?!?!
Simply
because we are not willing to put down or let go of the baggage of the "pretty
lady".
We should let go of the "pretty lady" immediately after crossing the river, immediately after the unpleasant event is over. This will immediately remove all our agonies. There is no need to be further hurt by the unpleasant event after it is over. It is just that simple.]
Daniel: I guess we are the left overs in this world.
Jasmine: I think so.. All of my friends have boyfriends & we are the only 2 persons left in this world without any special someone in our lives.
Daniel: Yup! I don't know what to do.
Jasmine: I know! We'll play a game.
Daniel: What game?
Jasmine: I'll be your girlfriend for 30 days & you will be my boyfriend.
Daniel: That's a great plan in fact, I don't have anything to do for the following weeks..
DAY 1:
They watched their first movie together & were both touched in the romantic film.
DAY 4:
They went to the beach & had a picnic... Daniel & Jasmine had their quality time together.
DAY 12:
Daniel invited Jasmine to a circus and they went to a Horror House.. Jasmine was scared
and she tried to touch Daniel's hand but by accident she touched someone else's and they both laughed..
DAY 14:
They saw a fortune teller down the road and asked for their future. The fortune teller said: "My darlings, please don't waste the time of your lives... spend your time together happily." Then tears flow from the teller's eyes.
DAY 20:
Jasmine invited Daniel to go to the hill and they saw a meteor... Jasmine mumbled something .
DAY 28:
They rode on a bus and because of the bumpy road, Jasmine gave her first kiss to Daniel by accident.
DAY 29:
11:37 pm
Daniel & Jasmine were sitting in the park where they first decided to play this game ...
Daniel: I'm tired Jasmine... do you want any drinks? I'll buy you one.. I'll just go down the road..
Jasmine: Apple juice would be fine,thanks.
Daniel: Wait for me...
20 minutes later... a stranger approched Jasmine.
Stranger: Are you a friend of Daniel?
Jasmine: Yes, why? What happened?
Stranger: A reckless drunken driver ran over Daniel & he is critical in the hospital ..
11:57pm
The doctor came out from the emergency room & handed out an apple juice & a letter to Jasmine.
Doctor: We found this in Daniel's pocket.
Jasmine read the letter which says:
Jasmine, this past few days, I realized you are really a cute girl & I am falling for you.. your cherished smile, your everything when we played this game.. & before this game ends, I would like you to be my girlfriend for the rest of my life. I love you, Jasmine...
Jasmine crumples the paper & shouted..
"Daniel! I don't want you to die...I love you... Remember that night we saw a meteor? I mumbled something.. I wished that we would be together forever & never end this game. Please don't leave me, Daniel... I love you, you cannot do this to me
Then the clock strikes 12
Daniel's heart stop pumping
THEN IT WAS THE 30th DAY...
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Always love your loved ones & show them how you feel before it's too late.. You will never know when they will be gone from your embrace.. If you were given a time to bestow petals of everlasting compassion & love to your love ones, today is the day. Love them while they are still here.
